In today’s constantly connected world, the way we interact with one another has changed. Relationship milestones are now often celebrated through technology and are sometimes reached through technology itself. Becoming Facebook official sometimes marks the real beginning of a relationship. Sharing a Netflix password may signify that the relationship is serious. Having a joint iTunes account is often part of a modern relationship. In a world that is increasingly dependent on the use of technology, how can you safeguard your own digital assets?
For tech-related assets that are purchased through a specific platform for use only on that platform, individual files often can not to be moved to another account. For example, an iTunes account cannot be split up; all the files must remain on the same account. Because many digital assets can often not be divided and must instead stay in one account, a good way to address these assets is to include appropriate provisions in a prenuptial (or postnuptial) agreement (“prenup” or “postnup”). A prenup can address the existing accounts as well as lay out a plan for how the assets should be handled and who would retain ownership should a breakup (or other event) occur. Negotiating a prenup is an opportunity to have a discussion about digital and other assets and to clarify how things will work during the marriage.
Rather than addressing what happens to the iTunes account upon a breakup; the prenup can instead address how a shared iTunes account should be maintained during the marriage. In this case, a prenup clause could provide for one party to have full control over the account while still allowing the other party access. The party with “access only” to the account would not be responsible for contributing any money towards the iTunes library. The point is, expectations about use of digital assets should be clear from the start if this is an important issue in the relationship.
When addressing assets in the digital age, it is not always black and white. Creative options are available depending on what is comfortable (and practical) for the couple. Regardless, thought should be put into sharing one account for any digital items that are important. To read more about how a prenuptial agreement can help to lay a foundation for your marriage, please visit the prenuptial practice area page of my website.